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Wednesday, December 31, 2008

The Itch

As 2008 has been winding down, we humans here in the Owned By Pugs household have been feeling the itch to foster.  Over the past few years we have created the OBP calendar and donated a portion of the proceeds to rescue groups, but we have never actually done real “hands-on” type of work like fostering.  Especially in these tough economic times when many families have had to give up their precious pooches, we recognize an important need for quality foster care of dogs and pugs in particular.

While the thoughts of another beautiful snorting pug and the warm feeling of knowing you are making a difference fills our minds, we are also consumed with “foster parent nerves”.  Will the new pug upset our pug apple cart?  How will the foster take to the transition?  What if we cannot separate when it is time to send the fostered pug to his/her forever home?  As you can see, we are excited and nervous all at the same time.  What do you think?  Any advice or commentary would be appreciated.  Have you fostered?  What was your experience?

As with most things lately, it turns out I am a little late in posing this question.  Sometimes, decisions get made for you.  And in this case, things seem to be working out just fine.  More to come.

Happy New Year!  Here’s to a prosperous 2009!


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Punchbugpug

12/31/2008

Well it sounds like you already “took the plunge”.  From working with rescues and fosters I have found:

1. Pugs seem to welcome new family members amazingly well.
2. Foster parents are awesome.
3. Those I have spoken with say it “gets easier” to see them go to their new home.
4. Lastly, MANY people foster for the first time…KEEP the Pug they foster….and never foster again! 

opps….
5. Four works fine!

Kim

12/31/2008

We are what is known in the rescue realm as “foster failures” meaning we make it about 36 hours before we end up adopting our foster children. As my mom runs a no-kill animal shelter you can imagine how problematic this can be. At our peak before our son(now 8) was born we had 10 dogs and currently have 6 having lost the others through the natural aging process or due to illness.  (We have a very large fenced-in yard which makes this all possible.)
It is so exciting that you are getting the opportunity to foster. You guys are just the sort of loving, responsible folks that are a dream come true for a rescue to work with. Your kids seem very well adjusted I would not think you will have any problems.
Very best wishes in the new year to everyone in the OBP community!

Julie

12/31/2008

How exciting!  Congratulations!  I can’t wait to hear… A little boy, or a girl?  I’m guessing an older female, fawn, with her tongue hanging out.  smile  We’ve considered fostering, and may at some point in the future (we adopted a 10-year-old half pug a few months ago).  Like Kim said, I bet there won’t be many issues, because your pugs are well adjusted and have a super home.  Good luck!

sue s

12/31/2008

I have never fostered but I think you have heard the calling for filling a true need in these hard economic times! As a Pastor, I will be fostering flocks-a shepard of people-you will be a shepard of puggies/furry friends-who will need to be loved. I hope all in OBP have a safe & Blessed New Year-remember you have a furry friend waiting for you to come home to them safe & sound!

Sue VDB

12/31/2008

I have no experience along this line and so cannot give you any advice; however, I detect at least one new foster pug in the family.  I believe you will be excellent foster parents and know how heavily this decision has to weigh on your mind, i.e. can we give up the pugs to their forever homes.  I do believe if you foster you certainly know you are saving lives and that must be an inspiration. Best wishes and good luck.

Sleighbelle

12/31/2008

I fostered once and it was a good experience.  Sleighbelle and Birdy were fine with the newcomer and the newcomer was ok too.  She had eye surgery before she came to me, and she was blind in the other eye, so the foster was a bit skittish; but just because she couldn’t see much.  She was able to get aournd the house really easily though.
I kept her for almost 3 months and it was very, very hard to give her up.  If I had only one pug, I probably would have kept her, but 3 pugs was really too much for me on a forever plan.
I highly recommend fostering.  Birdy was a resue and I tell you, there is just something that the dog knows, that whatever was bad in his past is over, and it starts with a loving foster family that helps to bridge them over to their forever family. Dogs and especially pugs are way smarter than we give them credit for, and they just know it’s smooth sailing from here on out.
And as for your pugs, I agree, they are very socialized and I think that they will (already have?!) adapt easily to a new pug in the mix. I look forward to seeing a picture of the vistor.

Pat

12/31/2008

How Awesome!  You have pug-normous experience to draw on, Three darlings to help out and show the “newbie” the routine. It is a big decision that effects your whole household, and I know that you aren’t going into this lightly. I too, would be concerned when the time comes to let them go to their new forever home, because I probably would be very attached.
I think it is wonderful and wish you and your family the very best.
Happy New Year to all my Pug Friends and Families, -  Love, Peace, Happiness for 2009
Pat & Mr. Skittles, & family

Andrea G.

12/31/2008

We’ve been fostering for Southeast Pug Rescue since 2004; fostering 28 wonderful little puggies and pug mixes.  Living here in FL, we also help out OPRA, CPR, and PROOF.  My advice…do it (sounds like you’ve already started - LOL).  It is a wonderful experience.  It’s hard work, it’s love, it’s rewarding…every emotion you can think of…you’ll experience it!  I always say loving and caring for the foster pug is the easy part, letting them go is the hard part!  And yes, we’ve been foster failures also, adopting 3 ourselves.  The satisfaction and love you’ll feel to/from that little pug in need will make everything so worth it.  Especially when they get adopted by the perfect family that will love them forever and ever and send you pictures and updates.  And well, if you end up being that perfect family, that’s ok too LOL!  You’re welcome to email me anytime!  Good luck!  Can’t wait to here the details.

Rebecca

12/31/2008

I think you will make great foster parents and any pug in your care is a lucky pug indeed.
I could never do it.. I’d end up with every last one of them, but I know people that do with great sucess.
Sleighbelles comment about how a dog know the bad is behind them brought tears to my eyes! I’ts true, and that’s probably why I’m such a softie.
Best of luck, I know you’ll be great!
Happy New Year!

Connie

12/31/2008

You are incredible parents and I am certain, would be exceptional foster parents. Benny, Henry and Luna are beautiful, loving pugs and would be wonderful foster siblings. You all would be a blessing to a pug transtioning to a new forever, loving home, and if it so happens that you end up adding to your family, it was meant to be. I dream of being able to foster some day.
Sleighbelle, you made me cry too.

Connie

12/31/2008

OOPS! Happy New Year to our adorable, loving pug friends and their parents. Abundant blessings for 2009.
Lucy and Connie in California

Cindy

12/31/2008

Yes, it does sound like you’ve already made the decision and I say “go for it!”. I have never fostered but think it is a tremendous gesture to help a rescued pug. I unfortunatly would never be able to let the little devil go to a new home. You have a wonderful pug family and I think they would love it!
Cindy and Phoebe the pug

Heather

12/31/2008

I can’t add anything that hasn’t already been said…Any foster puggie(s) that get the privilege of living in your home and with your gang are lucky indeed.  I know that I could never do it…there’d be no way I could give them up…but thank goodness there are those that can.  You will be beyond wonderful foster (forever?!?!) parents as you already are and I do agree that Ben, Henry, and Luna are so well socialized I’m sure they will love a new playmate.

As 2008 comes to a close I want everyone in our OBP community to know how grateful I am for your daily presence in my life.  Corrine, thank you is not enough to express my gratitude for how much happiness you bring me with your tales and pictures of Henry, Benjamin, and Luna.  It’s an honor to “know” all of you.

We wish everyone a safe and happy New Year’s and many, many puggie blessings for 2009.  (We need to come up with an OBP gathering in ‘09…imagine all of us caravanning to some centralized state with all our “kids” to finally come together face to face!!!)  Sorry this one was so long!

Love and Pug Kisses to All, Heather, Baxter, and Riley

Karen B

12/31/2008

I would love to be a foster pug mom but my husband says two puggies are waaaaay enough!  LOL!

I can’t add anything to the advice since I’m relatively new to the pug scene but I just know that you OBP folks have huge hearts and a wonderful family to share with some lucky pug/pugs out there that need a loving, responsible home to go to!

C.J., Toeby, and I want to wish all of you a very happy and blessed 2009!  I also thank you all for sharing your pug lives and stories and brightening my day so very much!

Gee, how did I ever get along without you all?

Sleighbelle

12/31/2008

Andrea G…28 fosters! That is so amazing—what a great gift you are giving to those pugs and their forever families!  I didn’t mean to make anyone tear up!  I wish all my OBP friends a wonderful New Year and I hope that all the pugs and their humans are safe and healthy in 2009.

Darci and Abbey the Pug

12/31/2008

We totally admire anyone who fosters!  I think I would love to do it, but my husband says we have too many pets already.  We have a lab, a yellow tabby, and a pug… and we are about to get another lab puppy to train for his dad… Anyway, we never have (besides the obvious) because I think I would get totally attached and we’d end up with 5, 6, ... who knows how many pets!  I say go for it.  Especially since you have nice weather year round.  It gets very cold in NE and it might be a bit much with all the dogs inside…  Good luck and know we’re rooting for you!  It would be great to read your BLOG about the experience…  it might change some minds…  Happy New Year!  We’ll be keeping up with you in 2009 as well.  Thanks for all your hard work!!!

Patty

12/31/2008

If any little orphaned puggies out there need a foster Mom and Dad, they couldn’t ask for better ones than you - not to mention two brothers and a sister who I’m sure will welcome them with open paws!
Letting go is another story.  How many times have we all just “gone to look” at a pup and come home with empty arms?  I don’t know about you (well, actually, I do or at least I can make an educational guess)but I “fall for the fur” every time.  I’m a sucker for a little wet nose and big brown eyes. I fall hard and I fall fast and never want to let go.  Happiness is, after all, a warm puppy. Best of luck to you and bless you for doing a wonderful and loving thing.  Happy New Year to all!

Andrea G.

12/31/2008

Sleighbelle…you made me tear up (twice) also.  I will absolutely admit that letting the foster pug go is THE hardest part of fostering.  Any person with a heart can’t help but become attached to a foster.  But what helps keeps me going is that I know that by that foster pug getting adopted, that enables me (frees up another spot) to bring in yet another rescue pug in need into my home.  And my husband (the logical one) has a limit on how many pugs we can have in the house at once LOL!  Fostering is so rewarding.  I’m lucky that most all of the families that have adopted my fosters keep in touch with me…it’s a big help! 

OBP, Like everyone has said, you will do great and any pug will be very lucky to have you as foster parents!  I can’t wait to hear all the stories! smile

Happy New Year to everyone!

Sue VDB

12/31/2008

A very happy 2009 year to everyone in OBPland.  There are some amazing stories here, and I truly admire and give numerous kudos to anyone who fosters.  If it were not for fostering, there would be much fewer pugs finding forever homes.  Thank you, and God bless all of you.

Martha

12/31/2008

All the best to you and your foster pup!  I was also very moved by what Sleighbelle said.  It makes sense that having three happy, well adjusted and obedient pugs would be the best thing possible for a rescue dog, no matter what their past had held for them.  I’m sure that H B and L will be terrific sibs!

And Happy New Year to all the OBP Family!

Stacey

12/31/2008

DO IT! That great big heart of yours still has room for another needing puggy!

We’re kind of fostering Willy. His parents are in the midst of a divorce and his mom moved out of the house leaving him behind. Dad couldn’t take care of him and has asked us to to take him. Mom’s attorney has been sending letters to dad asking him to return Willy to his mom, but dad wants Willy to stay with us. I love Willy as one of our own, and I don’t treat him any differntly than I do our Pugs, but I do keep in the back of my mind that there is a chance that one day he might have to go back to his mom. I won’t be ready for that day, but I’m prepared to work through it if it does come.
Given the chance, I think we would foster Pugs in need - 1, 2 or 10 grin

Sue VDB

12/31/2008

Stacey, good luck with Willy, and let’s pray for the very best possible outcome for Willy.  Sounds like it could get messy.

maura

01/01/2009

DEFINATLY FOSTER
The little homeless puppy (or adult) needs your help..

Stacy and Brutus

01/01/2009

We’ve fostered 2 pugs and a kitten. Each time was good. One pug didn’t work out with our family so after a month he went to a different foster parent. It’s work because its a new person. Also I had to have the mindset that “this is not my pet, this pet needs love and care until they find their forever home.” I want to foster another pug but with work it’s hard. I hope to get another foster sometime in May or maybe a little earlier. Because I am out of town a few times in the next few months it makes it hard.

I enjoyed it. It was definitely a fulfilling feeling. It was also very hard to give them up. To me it literally felt like the pet was dying or had died. At the same time I can’t take in any more animals and I wanted to foster again. That’s what kept me going. I think your house would be a great place for a pug foster. So many to keep him/her occupied.

Love the blog and look forward to this years antics!

Stacy and Brutus

01/01/2009

OH and Brutus was fine with the new additions. I did realize though he is fine being alone. He is fine either way if that makes sense.

Krissy

01/02/2009

We adopted our little Rosie from CPR. The foster parents were very involved in getting to know us and approving us to adopt. I think it helped them to let her go. She came from the evil breeder lady here and amongts other health issues, she is blind in both eyes. You would never even know she had a previous life. She is so happy, all the time. She plays and sings. I think she, at 6 years, has more energy than our 2 year old puggy. Rosie’s foster parents will always have a special place in our hearts. We do keep in touch with them through CPR events and Meetups. My husband and I hope to be good foster parents some day too; we just need a big fenced-in back yard!

Bless you and all the other foster parents!

sue s

01/05/2009

What a great story!! You are meant to take care of these fur babies!! Hope you have a name soon-perhaps some ideas from all of us in OBP-land can help! I can’t imagine any obne with a heart can just toss a furry friend away like that! Since the pug came as a special surprise after Christmas-how about Angel? or Lucky Girl She certainly is since she found her way to you! please let us know how she is doing and how Henry, Benjamin & Luna are helping her to adjust.

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